Are you a rude person? I know it’s a big “NO’ but did you ever hear your friends calling you a nasty guy and that makes you go like whatttttt but why? Sometimes stressful situations make us behave rudely, well that’s okay because that’s what situation demands and for that reason, if somebody calls you rude, then don’t mind.
However, if they call you rude always, then you might be overlooking some of the few subtle signs that indicate your abusive behavior. Therefore, it is crucial to examine your behavior through other people’s prism, especially when you don’t understand what’s going wrong.
Watch out for these signs to check- are you a rude person or that’s just their misconception.
A Sudden Shift In Energy
Have you ever come across a situation when everybody stops laughing or chatting as soon as you enter the room? Yes, that’s because they are not happy to see or were not expecting your presence.
This shift of energy among the people is a strong indication and alert too that you often behave rudely to them. Your negative vibes make them feel uncomfortable, and they wish you leave the room early so that they could resume enjoying themselves. If you find this energy shift often then it’s time to change yourself.
You Interrupt Them
Do you often interrupt others while talking just because their talks bore you or you have more exciting stuff to tell others? You might have something more exciting but interrupting others often is not good.
They will find you rude. So, let them complete the conversation and then it’s your turn to say whatever you wanted to. This way, they will pay attention to your words and hear you more often.
You Talk About Yourself
Honestly, talking about yourself makes you relaxed and is satisfying especially when you always have loads of exciting stories to share. But people are not ready to hear from you, especially all the time.
Very few are interested in knowing about your job, love-life, and problems. Also, when you talk continuously about your issues and life, it annoys others and makes you rude. So, the trick is to hear more and talk less, especially when you are in a group. Such conversations are more effective as you get to learn about others which are very important to build a healthy relationship.
Watch Their Body Language
Another subtle sign to identify your rude behavior from other’s eyes is through body language. If they refuse to make eye contact while interacting with you or close their arms, then it’s an indication. It is because they feel anxious around you and want to close off a conversation early.
Sighing more is also an indication that a person is feeling annoyed, stressed, and agitated while interacting with someone. Watch out for these signs in their body language to figure out your rude behavior.
Complaining A Lot
If you complain about almost everything from your dress to the food to the present happening, then people will find you rude. Also, they will not like being your friend because you only complain and not do something about it.
Besides this, if you bully someone, scream, shout, or feel self-righteous, then you are rude. Quit such impolite behavior ASAP.