Marriage is a big commitment that a couple gives to each other. It is very important that you fully know your partner and are comfortable with their habits both good or bad. In a dating phase, things might look cool and you tend to ignore some of their annoying habits. But once you decide to spend the rest of your life with each other you need to sure of your decision.
Being in a relationship, talking over calls, going out on fancy dates might make the relationship look simple. However, there are many challenges that come along the lifetime commitment of marriage.
There are some of the experiences that you should go through if you’re planning to take your bond towards marriage. Let us go through them and know how they will help you with your decision of marrying each other.
Here are some simple and useful experiences you can go through before your Final Decision.
1. Travel Together Instead Of Going On Fancy Dates
Fancy dates are every girl wish, but once you get along with each other and wish to explore each other even better travelling could be the best option. You can know each other well if you get a chance to live together. In this way, you will be with each other for a longer time. It is also the best way to notice small habits that you might have to deal with in future. Travelling gives you a sneak peek of your future. Exploring g new places, deciding and planning for the trip can strengthen your relationship even more. Also, it will add up to the memories of have shared with each other.
2. Share Your Childhood Memories
Communicating is a great way to understand and convey your thoughts. Your partner might have stepped in your life a few days back. You can have in-depth conversations about what your childhood was about, narrating some funny incidents, or any memory that you still remember. This will help in knowing each other better. You can also go through some old photographs together. Your partner should not just be your future but he should be a part of your past as well. This will help in building a deep connection with each other.
3. Have An Argument With Each Other
Fighting is not cool as it might affect your relationship. But having an argument over something is really important that proves effective in a lot of ways. When you indulge in a heated argument, you tend to lose temper and say rude and mean things to each other. Bit the important part is are you willing to solve those issues and make it up to each other after the argument? The difference of opinion is common but respecting each other’s thoughts and getting back along is where maturity lies. If you give up on each other and not solve issues then how will you handle the bigger conflicts of life?
4. Discuss Your Sexual Life
Couples might experience peaks and valleys in their relationship which is very common and natural. It is important to talk about your desires and needs with your partner. Sometimes you might feel disappointed or hurt but your partner remains unaware about it. You have to convey what you are feeling to let the other person understand. Discussing your sexual pleasures will help in building up a good bond. This will even help in getting you closer.
5. Make A Budget Plan And Stick To It
The relationship also involves sharing your responsibilities with each other. Before you think of marriage the managing of your expenses becomes an integral part. When you decide to make a budget plan you will share your expenses and this will help in knowing the spending pattern of your partner. You can, later on, discuss how effective this was and what else can you do to manage it more efficiently.
6. Meet Your Partner’s Closed Ones
Spending time with your partner is not enough. You need to to know his company as well. Also spending time with your partner’s closed ones will give you the opportunity to know more about him. As a partner, you might not the funny or naughty side of your partner which their friends can tell you. Your knowledge about your partner can expand by meeting their friends and getting along with them as well.
7. Discover A Hobby Together
Doing what you like is fun but with the one whom you love can be even more exciting. You can discuss with your partner and tell what you love to do and convince him to join with you if his hobby differs. Going to the same dance class and moving on your favourite song with your favourite person might just take your relationship a step above. In this way, you can know each other’s hobbies, likes and dislikes.
Hope that you make a decision keeping in mind all these aspects of life and have a happy life ahead.