Breakups are hard, no matter if things ended abruptly or mutually, they still hurt the same.
We all invest so much in our relationships that moving on seems impossible and we often feel lost.
But, don’t worry the world hasn’t ended and there are still so many things to explore and people to meet, all you need to do is follow these simple steps to get over your ex.
1. Delete The History
Delete, delete and delete! Erase all their pictures and burn down the stuff. You don’t need that dried rose that you hide inside your diary. Block them from your social media and delete that damn contact number before you regret drunk dialling or texting them those “I miss you or I hate you” texts.
2. Grief Once And For All
Ending things and losing someone is hurtful so cry a river if you want to or drown yourself in the ocean full of tears and memories. Don’t hold your emotions inside and pretend that it’s okay. Mourn the loss and move on instead.
3. Go Out And Start Living
We often isolate ourselves from the world and drown in sorrow, but it’s high time you go out and start living your life. Don’t give any human the power to make you feel weak. Go out and have fun. Do the things you love, socialize and even meet some new hot guys. Who knows what the future holds!
4. Treat Yourself
Pamper yourself for everything you are going through. Treat yourself to a fancy meal at a restaurant or buy that dress you’ve been eyeing for a while. Stop being so hard on yourself and go eat that damn chocolate cake in the middle of the night. Do whatever makes you happy and indulge in self-care.
5. It’s Okay To Vent To Your Friends
We all want emotional support during breakups and best friends are always there in the time of crisis. It’s okay to vent about your emotions to your best friend just don’t indulge in trash-talking about your ex, it may feel good momentary but you’ll regret it after a few years.
6. Keep Yourself Busy
Focus on your career and keep yourself busy by learning something new or join a club. Take part in fun activities or simply follow a healthy routine to get things on track. It’ll help you get your control back on life.
7. Take A Solo Trip
That place you always wanted to go but never got the chance to visit, this is the time to take that solo trip and enjoy with some great view and wine. You’ll learn to enjoy your own company and get some new perspective about your life.
The most important part to remember is break up is just a part of life and you shouldn’t let it put you down. Learn the lessons that the relationship taught you and move on. There are millions of humans on this planet and you deserve someone who loves you with all their soul.