So many people asked the tips to make marriage last for a lifetime. Well, after so many researches by researchers finally they find the answer to this question after conducting various surveys. They also conduct various intimate interviews to know in-depth with the people whose marriage get successful and form the divorced persons, to actually figure out what exactly went mistaken in their unions. Here is a list of points that are surveyed and collected answers form elders to make the relationship of couples lifelong.
These top six exact reasons findings shared
- Learn to communicate:
“For a good and successful marriage”, usually elders overwhelming us to talk, talks, talks. As they believe that the most marital issues can get solved by open communication, as well as conversely some whose marriages dissolved blamed due to the lack of communication.
- To know more about your partner before getting married:
Many of the people elders says that knowing about your life partner very well at the time of getting married is the best way to know in detail about both and the reason for a successful marriage. Elders strongly recommend the younger people to understand both of them before taking step towards marriage.
- Marriage is a lifelong commitment; treat is as an unbreakable commitment
Marriage should be not treated as a voluntary partnership treat it like a lifelong commitment that last forever. Many couples struggled through happy and dry periods but they find out the ways to resolved them. You do not have to lose hope as it’s a marriage not a girlfriend and boyfriend relation that can be broken easily. It is a lifelong commitment and it must be successful.
- Work as a team- learn it
Elders always urge us to do practical whatever you learned from the life experiences but as a team. In work, in sports, in cooking etc, See the problems together and also solve it together. Any illness, difficulty, setback experienced is every partner’s responsibility.
Choose the partner that resemble to you. Sometimes marriage is difficult for everyone, but it becomes actually easier with a partner that is of your same background, interest, as well as orientation. One of the most critical requirements for similarity is the value regarding potentially contentious problems like child-rearing.
Again, one of the most important points is that your whole relation depends on the understanding. If partners do not have understanding then the relation will not go for a long time. One day it loses its sparks and sometimes ends up with divorce. You can easily know about your partners understanding before giving the marriage commitment. It is the best time you get to know what is your mutual understanding then after knowing it you can take the final step to marriage.
It is beneficial to listen to your elder’s advice, not because they are old or always right but because they have more experiences of being wrong. So, they want their youngsters not to repeat the same thing and take the wrong decision that spoils their whole life.